Victims of the Illusion We're all victims of the illusion -- not victims of each other. Passive-aggressive behavior isn't exclusively male; it lives within the collective masculine role. Men just…
Comedy I love comedy, but I'm not fond of jokes, silliness, or trickery. I didn't understand my perspective of comedy until I found Steve Kaplan. So when I got an…
Letting Go is So Hard! I hear these words all the time, and they just aren't true. But there's a good reason for the words. People who are happy, successful,…
The hardest thing for people to let go is victimhood. Victims appear stuck in feminine roles. Victims always look outward for perpetrators instead of inward to the real cause. When I…
For part I, click here. Getting Unstuck Unraveling victimhood requires understanding how we got stuck in it in the first place. The intricacies of the illusion need to be exposed;…
This post is a continuation of Part I and Part II. The False Mind Can't See the True Perpetrator The master isn't the slave's enemy -- although it looks that…
Here are a few more tips on escaping the role of victim forever. You might want to read Part I, Part II, and Part III first. No one is a…
False Desires I used to have a fear of desires. I often got something I thought I wanted or needed only to find that what I got wasn't right for…
Heaven on Earth In my mentoring program in the past, about half of the people couldn't do the "Heaven on Earth" exercise where I asked them to write down their…
False Good or True Good False goodness is a big trap on the road to freedom. What people consider good according to social standards isn't real goodness because it…
We all realize that abundance is true. Even televangelists talk of our right to abundance these days. Yet often the path to freedom takes us through periods of lack. We…