Whatever beliefs we don’t see in our body or our personal life, we often see in our relationships. But our relationships act like a mirror. We have to treat them much as we would treat a mirror image to find the true causal belief. When we do, we free ourselves and the other person or people in the relationship. It is the greatest gift we can give to another.
Confusion of Roles Roles become very confusing when they're not played as designed. I've written about the masculine who pretends to be feminine -- an authority figure who projects out an enemy,…
The Host I never thought much about the notion of hosting until visiting Ecuador for a few months. I considered the woman who owned the home I stayed in to be my…
Transformed Creating a memorable story requires a transformed protagonist. What does it mean to be transformed? According to most people, to be transformed is really to have finally conformed. Larry is…
False Self Our mind works like a movie projector to create our view of the world. We experience what we're projecting with our body. If we only had a…
Masculine Role Teachers Once we understand the illusion's roles, letting go becomes easier. New Age teachers, clergy, gurus, and pop psychologists are well meaning, but they don't understand roles. All the…
Letting go from the masculine role is very different from the feminine. In this two part article, I'll explain why. Remember roles are a key aspect of the illusion; no…
Relationship Difficulties The illusion is always backwards from the truth. Once we're lost in it, we can't see the truth. We're filled with emotions; and we just want someone, anyone,…
Mentoring As you travel along the path to freedom, you're going to want to start mentoring others. Here are a few things that I've learned about mentoring. Freedom mentoring is…
Initiation is a Mental Path Initiation is a thinking (mental) path, not a doing path. This can be confusing at first. Now don't get me wrong. I don't mean that you…
Understanding masculine and feminine roles is key to stripping the illusion from our mind. Masculine and feminine roles were created through stories that were presented as right or true. The stories caused…
Imagine what would happen if people believed they knew more about how the sun should shine than the sun did. I've gotta say this because I'm tired of seeing…
By Cathy Eck Guns or Unconditional Love We live in a crazy time where people who say they love Jesus shout words of hatred to those who are different. Many…
By Cathy Eck Sad Stories The most common emails that I receive are sad stories. Someone with lots of beliefs and issues, emotionally, psychically, or physically abused the person who…
By Cathy Eck Embarrassment, Shame, and Humiliation Embarrassment, shame, and humiliation are the three evil cousins of letting go. They appear, as we let go, in a very strange…
By Cathy Eck Feeling Powerless People often believe that they can't get to win-win because they seem powerless in a situation. This is common for people who let go.…