Win-Win and Our Bodies
Lose-Lose People often write to me asking for help with physical problems. My body has been a huge challenge for me, mostly because the illusion is filled with beliefs about…
Lose-Lose People often write to me asking for help with physical problems. My body has been a huge challenge for me, mostly because the illusion is filled with beliefs about…
Not a day goes by that I don't hear, "Help Cathy, I can't find my fucking belief. I know it's there because my life sucks or my body is screaming…
Sharing Initiation After letting go for a while, we naturally want to share what we're doing with others; and we should. It's a very important part of the process. But often…
People are becoming more and more aware of the illusion; they hide from it, vent about it, or feel like they're stuck in a prison with no parole. No wonder so many people…
I'm often asked about excitement and tears of joy. In both cases, an emotion appears to be positive until we take a closer look. The Gift of Emotions Our emotions…
Secret Truth? It was said that initiates were sworn to secrecy with strict penalties for breaking their vows. But I question that. Keeping the truth secret goes against the very…
Most people associate freedom with wealth or power. There's good reason for that. The most joked about interpretation of the Golden Rule in the illusion is: "Those with the gold make the…
Transformed Creating a memorable story requires a transformed protagonist. What does it mean to be transformed? According to most people, to be transformed is really to have finally conformed. Larry is…
The Lord's Version Today is my 200th post. In honor of that milestone, I thought I'd write about my favorite fucked-up Bible story, the Tower of Babel. It's sad that…
NO LABELS, NO LIES If you've been reading this blog, you know that beliefs are disruptive lies that come disguised as the truth. That's why we accept them into our…
Victimhood and Victories Labels create invisible prisons. Sometimes the cell walls are imposed by others (discussed in Part I). But often, people hold on to labels even though they're destroying…
Releasing Emotions People hate to let go of their seemingly good emotions, like excitement, hope, or pride. "What would life be without excitement?," they ask. To get off the bottom of…
The "One" Followers and seekers of truth often write to me to ask me to confirm that their guru, teacher, preacher, or motivational speaker is the "One." I get lots…
Beliefs and Believers Beliefs aren't really a problem if we truly understand that they're all false. Believers of all sorts fear other peoples' beliefs; they think the others' beliefs can…
Holy Shit... My Life is on Stage Last weekend, I bought some cheap tickets to a play at the La Jolla Playhouse. I didn't have a clue what the play…