Success and Heaven on Earth My definition of success changed the day I first saw the above image. It's the Egyptian Weighing of the Heart Ceremony. The deceased must have a…
Letting go is natural. But we've been trained to use our minds in a very unnatural way to keep the illusion alive. It all began with the all-pervasive psychological reversal, the belief…
Desire You've got this nagging desire that just won't go away. How do you know if it's really a good desire to pursue? Is it a True Self desire? Or…
True Self Please Stand Up In order to get free and enjoy life on earth, we must know a True Self from a false self. It's hard because there are…
The Illusion of Respect We're trained to give respect to others at a young age. We're told to respect our elders, teachers, preachers, experts, authority figures, and people of a…
In my mentorship program, I require participants to write down their personal version of Heaven on Earth. It isn't the same for any two people. But there is a harmony among them.…
Are We Really Letting Go? Taking action to fix a situation is fixing the effect of our beliefs, not letting go. We're often so used to fixing effects that we don't even…
Problems? My dad was an engineer. He loved to take things apart and put them back together. He loved fixing things. When we would break something, he was thrilled. He…
Lose-Lose People often write to me asking for help with physical problems. My body has been a huge challenge for me, mostly because the illusion is filled with beliefs about…
Not a day goes by that I don't hear, "Help Cathy, I can't find my fucking belief. I know it's there because my life sucks or my body is screaming…
Sharing Initiation After letting go for a while, we naturally want to share what we're doing with others; and we should. It's a very important part of the process. But often…
People are becoming more and more aware of the illusion; they hide from it, vent about it, or feel like they're stuck in a prison with no parole. No wonder so many people…
I'm often asked about excitement and tears of joy. In both cases, an emotion appears to be positive until we take a closer look. The Gift of Emotions Our emotions…
Secret Truth? It was said that initiates were sworn to secrecy with strict penalties for breaking their vows. But I question that. Keeping the truth secret goes against the very…
Most people associate freedom with wealth or power. There's good reason for that. The most joked about interpretation of the Golden Rule in the illusion is: "Those with the gold make the…