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    Understanding Embarrassment, Shame, and Humiliation

    By Cathy Eck    Embarrassment, Shame, and Humiliation  Embarrassment, shame, and humiliation are the three evil cousins of letting go.  They appear, as we let go, in a very strange…

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    May 30, 2013

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    We have been lied to about everything.  The word BELIEF has the word lie within it for a very good reason. But the biggest lie ever told was that we can't let go of our beliefs (lies), labels, and overall mental programming.  

    I know letting go is possible because I've done it, and I've helped many others to let go too.

    I know that we were all meant to be free.  We were meant to be the creators of our own lives.  We were all born good, spiritual, and filled with unconditional love. No Labels, No Lies is about freeing our minds completely from beliefs, judgments, rules, and false desires.  

    I researched the mind, psychology, the occult, spirituality, and all religions for many years; I was looking for what I knew to be true. But I couldn't find what I was looking for. Then, I discovered how to decode old myths, spiritual texts, and stories. I discovered the Gateway To Gold; I found the way to return to Eden, which is a perspective (not a place).

    Ultimately, I came to understand that what I KNEW and now share was once taught in ancient mystery schools of initiation. The true initiation schools were not the same as secret societies or occult mystery schools. Those are bad copies of initiation.

    In the ancient schools of initiation, it was said that you entered as a man and exited as a God. But you won't find an initiation how-to book in the outer world. Our personal Handbook for Life is stored in our True Self; but we can't access it because we've covered it up with beliefs, knowledge, and rules for life.

    The ancient initiates left us a lot of hints carved in stone, and they metaphorically (not symbolically) embedded messages in their well-crafted stories. The initiates didn't think like we do today. So teachers, preachers, and gurus misunderstand their message. That's why religion and spiritual teachings don't take us back to Eden. That's where I come in; for some reason, I understand the stories of the initiated ones.

    No Labels No Lies is based on my own direct experience and my extensive decoding of ancient texts and stories.  Nothing I write is channeled or psychic.  My articles are all grounded in reality.  What I write is original; I didn't learn this from anyone else.

    If you are new to this website, you'll want to start with the older articles and move forward in time.  Blogs tend to work backwards.  The concepts and techniques that I present build over time.  So you will find the oldest articles to be simpler and easier to apply.  But they are no less important.  Some of my most important articles were the first ones I wrote. Let me give you some valuable advice: Read slowly. Stop when you feel emotions, and try to let go. Letting go is a lot like learning to ride a bicycle. You try and try, and one day it is easy.

    There is additional, more detailed information on many topics on my other website: https://gatewaytogold.com. That material is also free.

    I also have a membership website (which I call the unschool of initiation) for those who are very serious about mental freedom and initiation.  I explain the history of the mind, I decode stories past and present, I give lots of examples of how to let go, and I expose every belief system under the sun so that you know what to let go. There is a fee associated with the membership.

    You don't become like me in that unschool; I don't give you any beliefs.  You find your own true perspective.  You come to KNOW YOURSELF, and you know where you fit into the whole.  In time, everything in life starts to make sense again.

    But even if you want freedom more than air, you still start here with my free material.  That's where you will come to understand the basic lies that we've been taught about our minds; and you'll learn how to let go.

    Letting go isn't something that you can learn in a weekend.  It needs to be gentle and slow so that you can do it while living life.  You are undoing the damage that was done to your mind, which took decades. In initiation, your mind returns to the way you were mentally designed by the Creator. That is a huge shift in perspective. 

    So you have to be patient on the pathway back to Eden. The Gold Circle membership program is like getting a Ph.D. in the mind, life, relationships, mythology, psychology, and much more.  There is no topic that I do not cover.  If you are interested, the link to the Gold Circle unschool is: https://gatewaytogold.com/gold-circle-membership/

    To Support No Labels, No Lies

    Go to any website today, and the reading experience is horrible. Ads are distracting; and they tend to put beliefs into your mind. So you will never find ads on my websites. Your freedom means too much to me. Nevertheless, keeping up a website takes time and money. Having a free mind doesn't make money grow on trees. Gifts are never expected; however, they are very much appreciated. And besides, I LOVE surprises.

    My Facebook page is: https://www.facebook.com/gatewaytogold On that page there are more free articles on a wide variety of topics. Sometimes I just posts catalysts for letting go.

    My Twitter account is @gatewaytogold. That is mostly devoted to exposing political beliefs so that we can all take back our political freedom.

    I also have a Telegram channel. That link is: https://t.me/gatewaytogold. The image is a green mask. In that channel, I sometimes write something short as a letting go prompt. Or I take other posts on various topics from social media, and I add some light decoding to them.

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    People often want me to help them personally. I'm simply not able to do that anymore. Besides, I can't answer a question that is in your mind from an email.

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