The Host-Parasite Relationship
The Host I never thought much about the notion of hosting until visiting Ecuador for a few months. I considered the woman who owned the home I stayed in to be my…
Whatever beliefs we don’t see in our body or our personal life, we often see in our relationships. But our relationships act like a mirror. We have to treat them much as we would treat a mirror image to find the true causal belief. When we do, we free ourselves and the other person or people in the relationship. It is the greatest gift we can give to another.
The Host I never thought much about the notion of hosting until visiting Ecuador for a few months. I considered the woman who owned the home I stayed in to be my…
Transformed Creating a memorable story requires a transformed protagonist. What does it mean to be transformed? According to most people, to be transformed is really to have finally conformed. Larry is…
False Self Our mind works like a movie projector to create our view of the world. We experience what we're projecting with our body. If we only had a…
Masculine Role Teachers Once we understand the illusion's roles, letting go becomes easier. New Age teachers, clergy, gurus, and pop psychologists are well meaning, but they don't understand roles. All the…
By Cathy Eck Relationship Difficulties The illusion is always backwards from the truth. Once we're lost in it, we can't see the truth. We're filled with emotions; and we…
By Cathy Eck Initiation is a Mental Path Initiation is a thinking (mental) path, not a doing path. This can be confusing at first. Now don't get me wrong. I…
By Cathy Eck Guns or Unconditional Love We live in a crazy time where people who say they love Jesus shout words of hatred to those who are different. Many…
By Cathy Eck Sad Stories The most common emails that I receive are sad stories. Someone with lots of beliefs and issues, emotionally, psychically, or physically abused the person who…
By Cathy Eck Embarrassment, Shame, and Humiliation Embarrassment, shame, and humiliation are the three evil cousins of letting go. They appear, as we let go, in a very strange…
By Cathy Eck Feeling Powerless People often believe that they can't get to win-win because they seem powerless in a situation. This is common for people who let go.…
By Cathy Eck Awkward Phase When I was little, I'd often find myself caught in some stupid habit or pattern of thought. My mother would say, "Ah, don't worry…
By Cathy Eck Ties that Bind For the last two decades, I've been connecting the dots that link our stories, beliefs, minds, and physical experiences. Prior to my research,…
By Cathy Eck Level Confusion in Relationships In many of my posts, I talk about the nemesis of initiation -- level confusion. Relationships are highly complicated by level confusion. We…
By Cathy Eck Caregiving and Caretaking Did you ever notice that we use these two words interchangeably? It doesn't make sense because giving and taking are opposites. So…
By Cathy Eck This post is related to anearlier post on intimidation and interrogation. Ashamed of our False Self People might not admit it, but they're ashamed of their false…